This is the second time I have to type this because after the first time the reply didn’t post, so here goes again and hopefully it works this time.
Story:
If some of you don’t know or don’t remember, I was the guy who led the “wear powder blue to the Texas A&M game” movement last year. It wasn’t my idea, but I was the guy who put my face and name out to the media and public to get this thing some weight.
The intent of this was to show how upset(ness) we the fans were about our coaching staff and how poorly the season was going. As always, this was misinterpreted by many people, including the media and team representatives, who claimed this was an attack against the players. Whatever, that is expected.
What most of you probably don’t know is that more than two years before I did this, I had met Cody multiple times and we talked about football, school, and life in general. We considered each other friends and knew each other fairly well. His dad, our Coach, Dan Hawkins, even knew who I was and I had seen him speak at many public and small private events.
As you can imagine, this friendship and acquaintanceship created a very awkward time when this powder blue thing came about. I received a lot of positive praise and negative criticism for what I was trying to promote. This came from fans, friends, family, and players on the team. I was very good friends with some of the players on the team, some of which I had known for more than 10 years. They treated and looked at me differently after this thing.
About two weeks after that game, though, I bumped into Cody out one weekend and when we turned and recognized each other we smiled and embraced in a hug and had a, “How are you, man, it’s good to see you,” moment. He was very friendly and welcoming even though I had not seen him in more than 6 months and I had just tried to get his dad fired two weeks before this.
The point to this story is that Cody is one of the most mature people I have ever been around and I believe he could take some brutal forms of criticism or harassment before allowing it to get to him. I do believe he has had to receive some unfair personal attacks because of his dad, but I also believe he is the type of person who can take it in stride.
This doesn’t mean it is okay to attack him, but it means he is a big boy who can handle things for himself. I know he will do great things with whatever he wants to do in life because of his attitude and maturity. We are lucky to have him as a CU Buffalo.